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A woman I know, an extremely spiritual person, recently shared with me the following: ‘I used to have unfortunate beliefs about myself and I received back from external influences unfortunate results. When I decided to take control and raise my resonance, to be the change I wanted to become, to allow abundance and love come flow through me, absolutely everything fell into place. I am now living a life of leisure with a beautiful husband and I can draw what I want into my universe at will.’

What is a love magnet, money magnet, or health magnet? What does it take to become a magnet?

All it takes is a shift in perception.

Pay attention to what you focus on. Do you automatically expect a depressing day when it rains? Do you make assumptions that you’ll be happy when it’s sunny? What would happen to assume all rainy days are going to be glorious because you can splash through puddles or get indoor activities taken care of.

When we focus on good, good comes to us. When we focus on grief, we grieve. This is not to say there’s no place for grief in life, it’s just to say, we need to be mindful that we’re not suffering over our own suffering. We do not need to be grief magnets.

I overheard a girl in a caf telling her friend, ‘I’m a total freak magnet. I can’t leave my apartment without running into someone either clinically insane or whacked out on drugs or fanatical about some weirdness who wants to have extensive interaction with me.’

The friend responded, ‘That’s so strange. You live in a really nice place, in a really nice neighborhood. You wouldn’t think there’d be that many weirdoes around.’

‘They’re everywhere I am. It’s like they’re out there waiting for me to leave my house just so they can shout in my face or try to get me to join their cult.’

Of course, I didn’t interrupt, but I thought to myself, how awful for this girl to believe this about herself. She’s unconsciously drawing the lowest common denominator to her by putting out this energy into the world.

This is really how attraction works. What you think about yourself, you are. What you believe about the world, is your reality. What you speak, is your truth.

I was tempted, but didn’t tell her, ‘You could just as easily not be a ‘freak magnet’ by telling yourself you’re some other kind of magnet.’ My intrusion, sadly, would have merely confirmed her self-diagnosis and she’d misinterpret my attempt at kindness as just another freak trying to freak her out.

So whatever your beliefs are about the world, I implore you, take this freak’s advice and adjust it to bring you all that you ever wanted and not the lowest common denominator.